Marie Kondo and video game collecting

In case you’re unfamiliar with Marie Kondo, she’s a Japanese lady with a philosophy on how to tidy up living spaces that has gained incredible traction over the past few years. She’s all the rage right now. 



I stole an excerpt from some site that sums it up pretty well:

Kondo’s services command a waiting list a mile long in Japan, but for the rest of us, her book breaks down her radical, two-pronged approach to tidying. First, put your hands on everything you own, ask yourself if it sparks joy, and if it doesn’t, thank it for its service and get rid of it. Second, once only your most joy-giving belongings remain, put every item in a place where it’s visible, accessible, and easy to grab and then put back. Only then, Kondo says, will you have reached the nirvana of housekeeping, and never have to clean again.



What do you think? Has anyone tried this with their gaming collection yet??

 
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  • Sounds like another idiotic trend. I own a lot of things that don't spark joy.



    Furniture, kitchen utensils, laundry room stuff, toiletries, tools, all of these do not spark joy. But you know what, I don't have to look longingly at my pipe snake, and when my son throws a sock into the toilet I'm not exactly "joyous" about that either.



    Hell, I own things that spark tears.



    Lady's crazy, and she's teaching people that their possessions need to make them happy or they're garbage.
  • I watched one episode of this with my wife. After the family of four cleaned up their cluttered living room you could see an NES and a dozen games in the storage area under the TV. That's pretty much all I remember!
  • This crap is how people end up as anti vaxxers. But my yoga teacher told me I just have to sniff this stick and rub this oil on my rectum while masturbating to Mumford and Sons and my kid will totally not get the autistics. He's like totally oriental so it must be true.
  • Good ideas, people own too many things they'll never use.
  • New day new joy.
  • why would you collect if it didnt give you any joy. thats effin stupid
  • I figured this one would stir the pot
  • Originally posted by: phart010



    I figured this one would stir the pot



    Guess we all know what sparks YOUR joy then.  



    But seriously, if people believe what she's preaching then more power to them. As long as it works. I for one don't need some television personality how to live my life to my fullest.

     
  • Watched all of them and used her system to get rid of a bunch of extra clothes, books and other stuff. Really enjoy her folding and organizing method, and still follow it how ever many months later.



    Dont focus on the whole "sparks joy" thing, its the gimmick of the whole thing. I never held each item or any of that crap. However, her organizing system works well.



    The real gist of it is a huge purge of all of one type of item, like clothes.



    Most people will clean one room at a time, its far better to get all your clothes from every room and do them all at once. Same thing with books. 



    We had books in the garage, attic, living room, game room and our spare bedroom. Getting them all together is the shock we needed to say "ok we dont need a ton of these". My wife had so many shoes, many still brand new from 10 yrs ago. 



    It was cathartic donating all that stuff. I actually still have a list of stuff that needs to be organized and purged. 
  • Oh but for the record I dont think it works for video games because collecting games (or any other item really) is different.  The Kondo method is more for people that want to purge un-needed household items out of their life. 



    Just "having" the stuff is the fun in collecting. Whether its to play, speculate on or just know you have it on your shelf.



    There is no inherent "fun" in having sheets for a bed you dont have anymore or a jacket you hate and havent worn in a decade (unless of course you collect clothes)
  • Originally posted by: PowerPlayers

    As long as it works. I for one don't need some television personality how to live my life to my fullest.

     



    *cut to Joe sitting on his porch smiling as his house is bursting from the seams with stuff*

     
  • Originally posted by: Tulpa

     
    Originally posted by: PowerPlayers

    As long as it works. I for one don't need some television personality how to live my life to my fullest.

     



    *cut to Joe sitting on his porch smiling as his house is bursting from the seams with stuff*

     



    I swear I’ll need that stack of 1993 newspaper clippings one day!!!



    (I’m not really a hoarder as I have zero attachment to any physical belonging I own except a few select items of my late son which I plan on letting go soon, I barely even have furniture because of my kids, let alone rooms of junk)

     
  • Seems to make sense for hoarding and could be applied to some of my stuff.



    As for the video games, the being visible and accessible (and bringing joy) thing I like. Goals.
  • Apparently on the West coast, Good Will was rejecting donation drop offs for a while when she was really trending. Too many people donating their joy-deficient stuff at the same time.



    If anyone of y'all want to Kondo your NES collection, let me know  
  • I've actually been in the Kondo mindset for my games for a good 5 years or so. I regularly go thru my collection, and try to hang on to only games that I feel like I'll want to play again. Games I played and don't like, I get rid of. And games that I've played and liked, but feel like I'll never touch again I move as well. I've kind of gotten a preference for having a collection of games that are all ones that I enjoy I guess.
  • I think what she teaches is pretty clever when it comes to general belongings and hoarding, but every single thing I choose to add to my video game collection definitely "sparks joy"!
  • This is interesting and I've been hearing about this chick a lot lately. I finally bucked down and watched the first episode on Netflix and was like wtf this is a reality show, all the focused dramatization of having kids - yes it's insane but your house isn't going to buckle inward if you're even remotely organized. It felt extremely staged and "OMG, I can't handle organizing my closet" tears running down ruining their marriage, it wasn't my cup of tea.



    However, I want to learn the "system" and her philosophy but only got like 20 minutes in to the Netflix show. I still want to learn her core system/philosophy, but too wondered about the crap we have as "need" vs "joy" - like kitchen utensils that was a good example. I'm guessing the joy vision is more for the non-necessities.



    I have a TON of crap even a storage unit full and am dedicated to taking more of a minimalist approach to downsizing everything and closing the storage unit this summer.



    Mr. Wunderful it's interesting hearing your bit of feedback, I plan to follow that track for sure. That must be why ya got rid of the good ol' Wii U  .
  • Somewhat Kondo-inspired, we recently donated some unused blankets/towels from the house to a local animal shelter that needed extra bedding for the pets. It was nice to get more space in the linen closet, but more importantly, a lot of cats and dogs are now sleeping more comfortably.
  • I've never seen the show. My wife and I read the book like 5 years ago, and I feel like if you just kind of get out of it whatever makes sense to you instead of treating her ideas like some kind of hard RULE you need to live by, then it's interesting and worth thinking about. For me it was the realization that I don't need to KEEP everything I buy. So some stuff I can be like "yeah I don't like this. I don't need it anymore." Or some stuff I can be like "hey, I liked it at the time, but it's not doing anything for me now."
  • Originally posted by: Boosted52405



    However, I want to learn the "system" and her philosophy but only got like 20 minutes in to the Netflix show. I still want to learn her core system/philosophy, but too wondered about the crap we have as "need" vs "joy" - like kitchen utensils that was a good example. I'm guessing the joy vision is more for the non-necessities.

     



    The book from a few years ago is a quick read, and skips the drama of the show.





    In terms of "needs" vs "joy", and stuff like kitchen equipment, I like Alton Brown's philosophy of not owning specialty/single-use items (i.e. everything in your kitchen should be useful for multiple things), since it is easy to have "kitchen gadgets" and specialty utensils take over your space.



    Can't say I live by it, particularly, but it's an aspirational goal  





    For home improvement/construction/maintenance tools, it is different, obviously, as the exact right tool for a job can be the difference between DIY success versus wasting a whole day on what could otherwise be a simple task.



    But personally, I think those kind of tools "spark joy" (Kondo's terminology) in the sense that they allow you to feel like the master of your domain while still having time to spend with your family.



    She is clearly coming from all of this from the angle of a person who isn't doing physical maintenance or property rehab, so lacks that kind of perspective.







    But she's dead right that most of us own WAY too many clothes, drawers of random crap, and stuff that we are generally never going to use.

     
  • Originally posted by: arch_8ngel

     
    Originally posted by: Boosted52405



    However, I want to learn the "system" and her philosophy but only got like 20 minutes in to the Netflix show. I still want to learn her core system/philosophy, but too wondered about the crap we have as "need" vs "joy" - like kitchen utensils that was a good example. I'm guessing the joy vision is more for the non-necessities.

     



    The book from a few years ago is a quick read, and skips the drama of the show.





    In terms of "needs" vs "joy", and stuff like kitchen equipment, I like Alton Brown's philosophy of not owning specialty/single-use items (i.e. everything in your kitchen should be useful for multiple things), since it is easy to have "kitchen gadgets" and specialty utensils take over your space.



    Can't say I live by it, particularly, but it's an aspirational goal  





    For home improvement/construction/maintenance tools, it is different, obviously, as the exact right tool for a job can be the difference between DIY success versus wasting a whole day on what could otherwise be a simple task.



    But personally, I think those kind of tools "spark joy" (Kondo's terminology) in the sense that they allow you to feel like the master of your domain while still having time to spend with your family.



    She is clearly coming from all of this from the angle of a person who isn't doing physical maintenance or property rehab, so lacks that kind of perspective.







    But she's dead right that most of us own WAY too many clothes, drawers of random crap, and stuff that we are generally never going to use.

     

    These are neat points, especially the tools part.  I have a crazy amount of DIY home rehab tools along with standard mechanic/home tools - they do take up a chunk of space but are quite useful when needed.  These are precisely some of the items I struggle to downsize but will find ways to organize better I think.



    The Alton Brown philosophy you mention is interesting too, I'll note that down - the kitchen can easily get overrun with 1 trick appliances  .  I was just considering a Pizazz the other day, I'm terrible!
  • Originally posted by: Boosted52405

     
    Originally posted by: arch_8ngel

     
    Originally posted by: Boosted52405



    However, I want to learn the "system" and her philosophy but only got like 20 minutes in to the Netflix show. I still want to learn her core system/philosophy, but too wondered about the crap we have as "need" vs "joy" - like kitchen utensils that was a good example. I'm guessing the joy vision is more for the non-necessities.

     



    The book from a few years ago is a quick read, and skips the drama of the show.





    In terms of "needs" vs "joy", and stuff like kitchen equipment, I like Alton Brown's philosophy of not owning specialty/single-use items (i.e. everything in your kitchen should be useful for multiple things), since it is easy to have "kitchen gadgets" and specialty utensils take over your space.



    Can't say I live by it, particularly, but it's an aspirational goal  





    For home improvement/construction/maintenance tools, it is different, obviously, as the exact right tool for a job can be the difference between DIY success versus wasting a whole day on what could otherwise be a simple task.



    But personally, I think those kind of tools "spark joy" (Kondo's terminology) in the sense that they allow you to feel like the master of your domain while still having time to spend with your family.



    She is clearly coming from all of this from the angle of a person who isn't doing physical maintenance or property rehab, so lacks that kind of perspective.







    But she's dead right that most of us own WAY too many clothes, drawers of random crap, and stuff that we are generally never going to use.

     

    These are neat points, especially the tools part.  I have a crazy amount of DIY home rehab tools along with standard mechanic/home tools - they do take up a chunk of space but are quite useful when needed.  These are precisely some of the items I struggle to downsize but will find ways to organize better I think.



    The Alton Brown philosophy you mention is interesting too, I'll note that down - the kitchen can easily get overrun with 1 trick appliances  .  I was just considering a Pizazz the other day, I'm terrible!



    I definitely need to tackle the tool organization this spring, as I just haven't gone through my stuff in so long.



    But my philosophy is if the tool will save me at least an hour per job, I am probably willing to buy it and own it.







    The big difference in the kitchen, for me at least, is while I enjoy cooking, if I don't own some speciality appliance, I can just cook something different or find a recipe that doesn't require it and be just fine.  



    You don't have that kind of choice when it comes to home maintenance or house projects -- you need to do what needs to be done, either you're doing it or you're hiring a pro, so buy what you need to do it right.  (there is also a pretty significant safety element to having the right tools when it comes to drilling or cutting)

     
  • Originally posted by: winterion



    Somewhat Kondo-inspired, we recently donated some unused blankets/towels from the house to a local animal shelter that needed extra bedding for the pets. It was nice to get more space in the linen closet, but more importantly, a lot of cats and dogs are now sleeping more comfortably.



    That's an excellent idea! I know I can do the same.

     
  • Excellent idea and I usually go through all my stuff every few months and throw it out or donate it.



    I can't stand clutter and having a bunch of shit I'll never use.



    There is a difference between useless material possessions and having things that have practical uses as well.
  • Originally posted by: Every1whocountsluvsNedFlanders



    Excellent idea and I usually go through all my stuff every few months and throw it out or donate it.



    I can't stand clutter and having a bunch of shit I'll never use.



    There is a difference between useless material possessions and having things that have practical uses as well.



    Like dinosaur planters

     
  • I have no hate for Ms. Kondo's perspective and if it works for "you", then great. I watched a couple of episodes with my wife and she's always frustrated with the stuff we have in our house. I think she could have been a shaker. Still, we have a lot of books, toys for the kids, decorations, cheap art, etc. I recommend that we use this for that type of stuff. But, then the head turns to my games. Huh-uh. I do have a lot of stuff I don't intend to need, play or keep. That's trade fodder. Also, there are plenty of games I'll probably never play but they are part of the whole and are valuable as part of a collection. These items, though they may not provide me individual joy, provide me joy as being part of the stuff on my (*cough*, eventual) shelves of games.



    TL;DR: For some of us, the value of the whole is greater than the sum of the individual parts. Good for Ms. Kondo helping people declutter but it's not a silver bullet and doesn't work well with all of us. And, for the record, my wife has been cool about my collecting.
  • Yeah I'm totally going to pick up my copy of Gilligan's Island on NES and say "does this spark joy" and decide it does, lol. Get away from my video game tapes Marie! Mario Kondo is 100% a dank collector.
  • Originally posted by: MuNKeY

     
    Originally posted by: Every1whocountsluvsNedFlanders



    Excellent idea and I usually go through all my stuff every few months and throw it out or donate it.



    I can't stand clutter and having a bunch of shit I'll never use.



    There is a difference between useless material possessions and having things that have practical uses as well.



    Like dinosaur planters

     

    Gotta have plants man, they are natural air circulators/cleaners.
  • It makes me want to upgrade the condition of some of my games. Yes, I'm glad to have all these games, but the shiny labels spark way more joy than the frayed ones.
  • Originally posted by: DefaultGen



    Get away from my video game tapes Marie!



    That’s the punchline I’ve been waiting to hear 
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