If it was sig. comp. then I have to side with Sara on this. If the buyer didn't pick up a package at the PO then it is not her fault at all and I do think a neutral is harsh when she done her part. I do agree that some of her people skills when dealing wish customers could be better at times, we have seen some pretty nasty threads in the past.
Steve it sounds like you dropped the ball on this one not her. Esp if she has a traceable service like SC. ~~NGD
Even with this being said, this is no reason to threaten someone with being on a NA blacklist. I thought we were here for the collecting community, not blackballing them?
Also, not trying to side with anyone, but if you are sending a package that requires a signature, wouldn't you want to let the buyer know that?
i don't really see why this is THAT big of a deal, i've waited a month+ several times for packages, it doesn't really anger me that much at all. I think everyone should just chill and stop complaining if they have to wait a little longer than usual. I mean, you did get it didnt you, c'mon people.
I'm honestly surprised how much attention this topic has gotten. I wish I could have just not made an offer on it and just avoid all this nonsense. I'm still waiting on that sig comp number though.
I am sending the original mailer out to you today to inspect yourself.
Pictures sent to NGD of the mailer. It has his address etc so I am not going to be held responsible for that information sent to anyone. I assume he will keep it private.
It was using my camera phone, but the original buyer can update when they get it if they like.
Also, it just says
Return to sender
not deliverable as addressed
unable to forward
return to sender
and says something about Nixie and 3 letters I can't make out.
^ Totally going to have to disagree w/ you on that one. Although this isnt "that" big of a deal.
Having to wait a month on something sucks, and is a big hassle.
i just said i've waited more than a month before, and it wasn't the end of the world. As for it being a hassle, i don't really get that, you go, you open your mailbox, its either there or it isn't. Things happen in peoples lives, things get delayed for whatever reason, its just a part of life, the quicker people accept that, the less often thay will have to get upset.
I think what it boils down to is that over time, Raregamergirl has gotten a bad rap because of her occasional temper problems. Once you're viewed as a volatile person, sometimes it takes a lot of hard work to live it down. I'm sure if this was the first disagreement that she'd had with a customer, no one would even be talking about it.
+1 That thread with Pedro was priceless !
" I AM A RESPECTED MEMBER !!!!!!" " YOUR A F*****G RESELLER" !!!"
Kind of hard to take your side based on things you've posted in the past. Your definitley not going to get the sympathy vote. And why threaten him with NA ? Thats just childish. Honestly, I would have consdiered a neautral too but not because it took so long. Id consider it because your harassing people after 1 WEEK for positive feedback. I know personally I dont leave feedback for something if I am not happy with it. (I don't like leaving negative unless I have been truly screwed) Why bug people for it ? If you get feedback great, if not relax, going off the handle and acting like a spoiled entitled child is not the way to be RESPECTED within the community. Its not all about what you physically have in your collection its also how you act amonst your peers.
To be fair on this, Sara sent me pics of the package, the address, the signature confirmation sticker, etc etc -- whether your uncle said you've never received a signed package in 3 years or not, it appears you did and perhaps the PO either didn't delivery it and/or notify you.
On second thought, this is turning into a bash Sara thread. The buyer and seller should work this out -- you both have PM access (now) here, so have at it!
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If it was sig. comp. then I have to side with Sara on this. If the buyer didn't pick up a package at the PO then it is not her fault at all and I do think a neutral is harsh when she done her part. I do agree that some of her people skills when dealing wish customers could be better at times, we have seen some pretty nasty threads in the past.
Steve it sounds like you dropped the ball on this one not her. Esp if she has a traceable service like SC.
~~NGD
Even with this being said, this is no reason to threaten someone with being on a NA blacklist. I thought we were here for the collecting community, not blackballing them?
Also, not trying to side with anyone, but if you are sending a package that requires a signature, wouldn't you want to let the buyer know that?
Having to wait a month on something sucks, and is a big hassle.
Pictures sent to NGD of the mailer. It has his address etc so I am not going to be held responsible for that information sent to anyone. I assume he will keep it private.
It was using my camera phone, but the original buyer can update when they get it if they like.
Also, it just says
Return to sender
not deliverable as addressed
unable to forward
return to sender
and says something about Nixie and 3 letters I can't make out.
^ Totally going to have to disagree w/ you on that one. Although this isnt "that" big of a deal.
Having to wait a month on something sucks, and is a big hassle.
i just said i've waited more than a month before, and it wasn't the end of the world. As for it being a hassle, i don't really get that, you go, you open your mailbox, its either there or it isn't. Things happen in peoples lives, things get delayed for whatever reason, its just a part of life, the quicker people accept that, the less often thay will have to get upset.
I think what it boils down to is that over time, Raregamergirl has gotten a bad rap because of her occasional temper problems. Once you're viewed as a volatile person, sometimes it takes a lot of hard work to live it down. I'm sure if this was the first disagreement that she'd had with a customer, no one would even be talking about it.
+1 That thread with Pedro was priceless !
" I AM A RESPECTED MEMBER !!!!!!" " YOUR A F*****G RESELLER" !!!"
Kind of hard to take your side based on things you've posted in the past. Your definitley not going to get the sympathy vote. And why threaten him with NA ? Thats just childish. Honestly, I would have consdiered a neautral too but not because it took so long. Id consider it because your harassing people after 1 WEEK for positive feedback. I know personally I dont leave feedback for something if I am not happy with it. (I don't like leaving negative unless I have been truly screwed) Why bug people for it ? If you get feedback great, if not relax, going off the handle and acting like a spoiled entitled child is not the way to be RESPECTED within the community. Its not all about what you physically have in your collection its also how you act amonst your peers.
rant off