I had a similar experience of "girls chase the boys." I was quite young (Kindergarden/1st Grade), and this beautiful girl Jill caught up to me, and pinned me against this kind of boiler/shed out on the school playground. I can always remember vividly when it happened, not only because it was my first kiss, but I was really shocked to be kissed and she used her tongue to assault my mouth. No complaints!
6th grade... I "dated" her for 5-6 months, and only kisses her a number of times (I could count the number with only my fingers). The majority of the (limited) kisses were made underneath the play structure during recess. I remember we also held hands like weirdos (no fingers intertwined, instead we cupped out hands together). I would always try to intermingle our fingers, but she would not have it.
My first real kiss was an amazing experience. I was at a field party in the summer of '99 after grade 7 and I guess I would have been 13 years old. I was a little buzzed (probably from 1/2 a Colt .45) and got separated from the group with a girl I liked and her friend. Her friend went to go relieve herself so I made a move and started getting with the girl I liked. Definitely a great first kiss. Her friend came back a few minutes later and before I even knew what was going on I was making out with her too. Got with both of them for what felt like forever (probably like 15 minutes) before going back to the group. First and last time I ever hooked up with more than one girl at the same time, but fuck, what a night!
Interesting how many of these first kisses involve girls chasing boys.
Welcome to the 21st century.
You think 6 and 12 year old girls are any different today than 50 years ago? I'd bet the story was the same in our parents generation and the generations before that too. The reason I found it interesting is that because from evolutionary biology kind of pov in adult mating girls get to choose boys. That's just a byproduct of having a single egg and needing to be choosy versus having unlimited sperm and not needing to be choosy. I was just a little surprised to hear of that kind of behaviour expressing itself as young as has been stated here (5 years etc in some cases), although I guess I shouldn't be. In other words I see this thread as reinforcing how adult relationships mostly happen. (On some level - the girl gives the green light). Sometimes that's subtle and sometimes it isn't - my own wife pretty well attacked me which led to us dating and marrying. It almost seems like young girls learning to give the green light first give it in forceful and aggressive ways and only take it down later(?) as a learned behaviour although a lot of this could be personality driven too.
Heh mine is like a messed up Charlie Brown tale, with this cute little red head girl. It in 1st grade and was a dare of course but a dare on her part to kiss me, which she did after being chased down tackled and smootched on and I thought it was gross hell and remember getting in trouble flooding the bathroom washing my entire head in the sink. She done this a few more times during the year and her bother found out about it and was mad that I didn't like her and thought she was gross and we actually got in a scrap which really was just me jabbing him in the nose causing it to bleed. As time went on nothing more came of it and I ended up transfering schools the next year. And it wasn't until I was in Highschool I seen both of them again we joked around about it and she grew up and was still a cute girl more so than back then and she got married about a year or so after graduation and her bother went into the air force and I went my way but unbeknownst to her since that time in 1st grade and still today I have a fascination and weakness for spunky red headed women, well any red headed woman really. Feel just like old Charlie Brown when one happens by. *deep sigh*
First time I was kissed was on the cheek by a freshman girl when I was a junior. I was on the varsity basketball team, and we had a game the evening of my 16th birthday. We were winning most of the game but couldn't hold off the other team to get the win. After changing in the locker room, I came out and she was standing there. She gave me a hug and then suddenly kissed me on the cheek. I was pretty surprised.
First time I kissed anyone was in March of this year. My fiancée and I kissed right after I proposed. It was both of our first kisses, and we sucked at it. We've since had some practice, and we're a bit better now.
2nd grade, back of the classroom in this out-of-sight wing type place. Her name was Summer. Other stuff that would get kids expelled nowadays also happened. In hindsight I cannot fucking believe a cripplingly shy kid like myself was that bold
sandafloor is a king amongst us peasants!! going for the brown in second grade?!! thats legend shit!!
Kindergarten, I chased down and tackled my "boyfriend" (who had been steadily gifting me all his stuffed animals in daycare) then kissed him while his older sister cheered me on.
I too was in kindergarten. There was a cute blonde girl that I really liked. I know it's absurd now to think that a kintergartner would find something to be attracted to at such a young age. I don't remember how we got to that point, but I remember she asked me to kiss her during one of our breaks. I went to a private "gifted" elementary school. Again, what constitutes as "gifted" at that age is beyond me. I knew how to scribble? Anyway, we had breaks throughout the day. I remember she was sitting against the wall and I leaned in and gave her a really good smooch. She smiled and that was it. After that, all the girls in my class wanted to kiss me, which I eventually obliged. My next kiss after kindergarten wasn't until the 7th grade, so there is that.
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Interesting how many of these first kisses involve girls chasing boys.
Welcome to the 21st century.
Interesting how many of these first kisses involve girls chasing boys.
Welcome to the 21st century.
You think 6 and 12 year old girls are any different today than 50 years ago? I'd bet the story was the same in our parents generation and the generations before that too. The reason I found it interesting is that because from evolutionary biology kind of pov in adult mating girls get to choose boys. That's just a byproduct of having a single egg and needing to be choosy versus having unlimited sperm and not needing to be choosy. I was just a little surprised to hear of that kind of behaviour expressing itself as young as has been stated here (5 years etc in some cases), although I guess I shouldn't be. In other words I see this thread as reinforcing how adult relationships mostly happen. (On some level - the girl gives the green light). Sometimes that's subtle and sometimes it isn't - my own wife pretty well attacked me which led to us dating and marrying. It almost seems like young girls learning to give the green light first give it in forceful and aggressive ways and only take it down later(?) as a learned behaviour although a lot of this could be personality driven too.
First time I kissed anyone was in March of this year. My fiancée and I kissed right after I proposed. It was both of our first kisses, and we sucked at it. We've since had some practice, and we're a bit better now.
2nd grade, back of the classroom in this out-of-sight wing type place. Her name was Summer. Other stuff that would get kids expelled nowadays also happened. In hindsight I cannot fucking believe a cripplingly shy kid like myself was that bold
sandafloor is a king amongst us peasants!! going for the brown in second grade?!! thats legend shit!!
your my hero sandaflaw
Kindergarten, I chased down and tackled my "boyfriend" (who had been steadily gifting me all his stuffed animals in daycare) then kissed him while his older sister cheered me on.
I too was in kindergarten. There was a cute blonde girl that I really liked. I know it's absurd now to think that a kintergartner would find something to be attracted to at such a young age. I don't remember how we got to that point, but I remember she asked me to kiss her during one of our breaks. I went to a private "gifted" elementary school. Again, what constitutes as "gifted" at that age is beyond me. I knew how to scribble? Anyway, we had breaks throughout the day. I remember she was sitting against the wall and I leaned in and gave her a really good smooch. She smiled and that was it. After that, all the girls in my class wanted to kiss me, which I eventually obliged. My next kiss after kindergarten wasn't until the 7th grade, so there is that.