Help with dealing with new dog, new apartment

So, this is the story: like 8 months ago my fiancè's mother got her a dachshund, because her previous dog died (another dachshund). She did it without my fiancè's consent, and she didn't really want another dog, so she didn't take responsibility for him. He became the family dog then, but because my fiance's brothers are so lazy (and neither them asked for the dog), they didn't help much with it's necessities. So, they were gonna find him another home, but when I finally met Rex, I really liked him, and asked my fiance to take care of him until we moved together, and then I'd take full responsibility for him (I had to bribe her ).



So, next Saturday she's going to move in with me, along with Rex. Unfortunately, Rex has become a very, ummm, hyperactive dog. He constantly destroys stuff, and gets anxious if he's alone (starts to bark a lot). Ruth (my fiancè ) and I have to go to work, and will have to leave him without human supervision for part of the day. I thought of a couple of solutions:



1) get him neutered to make him less prone to urinate on the furniture (and my games).



2) get him a dog companion - I was told of a 6 month female dachshund that needs a home (free of charge), by a friend.



3) get him to a professional trainer.



Are my solutions fine? Can I do something else? Is it possible for me to train Rex myself to be less destructive and anxious?

Comments

  • Get him the chop and he will calm down a little.

    Don't get a female companion. This is just asking for more trouble.

    Get him into obedient school asap. The longer you wait, the harder he will be to train.

    You havnt stated his age, this is very important because if he's still a pup then he will act like one, and will settle down as he grows.

    If he's however a few yrs old, things will be more difficult.

    Another thing, I don't know your house environment, but you should separate the inside from the outside as a rule for the dog.

    Keep the dog outside and teach him to understand that inside the house is out of bounds.

    If worse comes to worse... Buy a cat

  • Originally posted by: Holy-SNES



    Get him the chop and he will calm down a little.

    Don't get a female companion. This is just asking for more trouble.

    Get him into obedient school asap. The longer you wait, the harder he will be to train.

    You havnt stated his age, this is very important because if he's still a pup then he will act like one, and will settle down as he grows.

    If he's however a few yrs old, things will be more difficult.

    Another thing, I don't know your house environment, but you should separate the inside from the outside as a rule for the dog.

    Keep the dog outside and teach him to understand that inside the house is out of bounds.

    If worse comes to worse... Buy a cat



    Neutering a dog doesn't always help. My freinds dog TJ is a super hyperactive dog. He was neutered last year and he still acts the same. Like humans I think dogs can also develop ADD, people say they can't but I don't believe that.
  • The most important thing in my opinion is after you learn different things in training, make sure you practice frequently. It's very important to show the dog who the alpha is of the home, otherwise you will have continual behavioral issues.
  • I forgot to mention he's like 1 year and 3 months old.
  • As for experience with our dog, he used to get anxious when we left home in the morning but now he got used to the routine and he does not get anxious when we go out in the morning because he knows we'll come back in the afternoon (he still freaks out on weekends when we stay with him in the morning and then leave at a later time as it is not what he is used to see). Perhaps taking him out for a walk after you get home might help him with the anxiety too, it'll help the hyperactivity and function as a reward for waiting at home.



    Also when our dog urinates or defecates where he's not supposed to, we clean it up and then put his food in that place for a few days, that should stop him from urinating/defecating there again.



  • Make sure he gets lots of exercise daily, this will hopefully mellow him out a bit, strong verbal reprimands like a short NO! Remove him from the area, and always always reward and encourage good behavior. Reinforcing good behavior is essential. All he really wants is attention, so if he gets it for being bad, bad behavior goes up, likewise for good behavior. that's all I could think of at the moment.

    Good luck.
  • Definitely get him neutered. As far as training goes, you should be able to handle it yourself. About 10-15 minutes a day is all it takes to teach a dog. Start with basic commands like sit, stay, down etc. and then you can move to tricks such as roll over.



    The dog has to know who is boss. You essentially need to become "leader of the pack" and make the dog obey your every command. Consistency is the trick and it'll work with patience.
  • Get him snipped.



    Also, you are giving the dog free reign of the house while you are gone?

    If that is what is giving the dog access to misbehave, just put him in his crate during the day.



  • This whole thread could have been avoided with a simple call to your local vet to find out a professionals opinion on the situation....

  • Originally posted by: dra600n



    This whole thread could have been avoided with a simple call to your local vet to find out a professionals opinion on the situation....







    But where's the fun in that? Seriously though, I bet many people here have dogs, and should be able to give useful opinion.
  • Yeah it's not like your dog ingested poisonous chemicals. Calling a vet is overkill.



    I agree with the neutering, but I'd advise against getting him a companion this early. It can introduce a whole new set of problems if your dog is dog aggressive, or if the other dog has it's own issues.



    I'd get the dog a crate until you are comfortable leaving him in the house alone. If he's in the destructive / chewing stage, he's not ready to be left alone yet.
  • snip/crate/excercise/disicpline/reward
  • also, do not get another dog until you get the first under control.

  • Originally posted by: qixmaster



    snip/crate/excercise/disicpline/reward

     



    ^this.  Crate training little dogs is one of the best thing you can do. Dogs are den animals by nature. Once they become comfrtable with there crate they'll feel safe and cozy inside. It does wonders in helping to house break them too. Nobody shits/pisses where they live, you know?  Also, lot's of excercise is import, escpecially with dachsunds.  If he's ever acting up just whip out a laser pointer and let him chase that back and forth across the room for 30 minutes

  • Originally posted by: jonebone



    Yeah it's not like your dog ingested poisonous chemicals. Calling a vet is overkill.

     



    If I'm having issues with my pet, I'll call the vet (a reputable, not some random shady place) for advice on how to train my animal(s) / behavioral issues. Granted, I would only do this after a good google search, especially since every dog won't react/respond the same way (and quite possibly rebel), so would you rather listen to the opinions of a few people, or listen to a professional?

  • Originally posted by: dra600n




    Originally posted by: jonebone



    Yeah it's not like your dog ingested poisonous chemicals. Calling a vet is overkill.

     



    If I'm having issues with my pet, I'll call the vet (a reputable, not some random shady place) for advice on how to train my animal(s) / behavioral issues. Granted, I would only do this after a good google search, especially since every dog won't react/respond the same way (and quite possibly rebel), so would you rather listen to the opinions of a few people, or listen to a professional?

    So if you want to do an oil change, do you call a dealership or maybe ask a few mechanics on a message board?  OP is asking for very basic skills that any dog owner should be able to perform themselves.



    He's not asking how to give his insulin shots to his diabetic dog.  Just accept that your first post was made pre-coffee and sounded like a dumb troll with no value added.  This is a non-argument.
  • Calling it trolling or whatever you'd like. If the suggestions provided here don't work well, much like Acomicbookguy's friends dog who didn't calm down or anything after being fixed, then I guess consulting a vet / professional will still be overkill



    Also, comparing an oil change and calling a garage vs potential behavioral issues with an animal are 2 way completely different things. Garages will be more than helpful with the basic questions (such as what part number for an oil filter or the right weight of oil), but won't give you a step by step instructions on what to do. A vet will give you a good range of options, or even offer to do an eval on your pet if you're still having issues, and recommend the next steps to take. For a potential long term companion, such as a dog or a cat, you'd think that in the beginning stages of owning an animal, you'd want to be a little "over the top" so you can learn what to do and what to expect. Various posts on a forum won't help with that.

  • Originally posted by: dra600n



    Calling it trolling or whatever you'd like. If the suggestions provided here don't work well, much like Acomicbookguy's friends dog who didn't calm down or anything after being fixed, then I guess consulting a vet / professional will still be overkill

     





    Personally I think if you really want to seek "professional" help you should be looking at a trainer of some sort..  At least around here vets are for sick or injured animals, not because you don't like how they act and don't know how to train them.
  • Yeah... I would consider watching an episode of Caesar Milan to be more effective than a vet. As a Rottweiler owner, I've learned various techniques that have helped me calm my dog's natural aggression.



    Also, my fiance worked at a vet for 2 years herself if that makes my opinion any more valid I've also trained numerous dogs, even stubborn ones.
  • True, a trainer would probably be more suited than a vet, though, the vets that I've been to have been able to offer some solid advice and techniques for both cats and dogs, and they didn't charge for said information/help, which is why I mentioned it.

  • Originally posted by: qixmaster



    snip/crate/excercise/disicpline/reward

    Yeah this.  Also, when you leave turn on a TV or Radio on lower volume. Enough so the dog can hear ot but also sleep if he wants to.  The above combo will do wonders for you and your dog. 




  • heh, I guess I could use the morning excersise too Thanks for the suggestions, I think I won't get him a companion. I'll let you know how have things worked with Rex.
  • Can you post some photos of the hellraiser??
  • Have you thought about getting it a prostitute?



    Kidding aside, Josh and others have nailed it.

  • Originally posted by: MrMark0673



    Have you thought about getting it a prostitute?



    Kidding aside, Josh and others have nailed it.

    Mmm... do you think that'd help ? I'm willing to try anything.





  • Originally posted by: MinusWorlds



    Can you post some photos of the hellraiser??







    I'll do it when I can
  • Here's the little brat



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    Fortunately, he hasn't been so bad. He hasn't destroyed anything, and the neighbors haven't complained of noise (I assume he hasn't been barking a lot when we aren't home). The only problem is that even if I take him out twice a day (in the morning and the evening), he keeps urinating all over the floor before we wake up.
  • you probably need to take him out one last time right before you go to sleep. (by evening it sounds like you mean a few hours earlier than that)



    also, you can regulate his liquid intake so that he's not filling up on water before bed time.
  • gonna try that Nathan, thanks!
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